Well Today is Tuesday, Who would've known. It feels like a Monday. Here's a cute panda.
Go grab ya coffee and settle in join me for a chit chat.
So how did your labor day go? I gamed with my hubby all day pretty much. We played Rise of Nations. I got beat twice yep. No bragging rights for me. Thats okay tho! I'm not a sour loser. I will eventually win. Until then though. Heres a chit chat.
Okay so This morning I was supposed to get the hubby off to work, get the kids up and to school and go have lunch with my friends. BUT! I got up got hubby off to work went n laid down and went back to sleep. Barely got the kids on the bus on time. So no breakfast for me this morning. We do this every now and then. You'd of never thought that We had only met in like April. We havn't even been friends for a year and I already feel so close to them.
So everyone knows how highschool is, you have all these friends you see 5 days a week, and a couple you see 6 or 7. Then you graduate. Never hear from them or rarely hear from them again. Both peoples fault you could always reach out. If your like me your lives just went in different directions and you no longer feel connected to them anymore. I thought I would never find friendships like the ones I lost again. My friends moved out of state, to get married or for school. Some of them were younger than me and still in school. I got married. Got pregnant shortly after with my son. No one understood my life at that point, I didnt understand theres either. We were all off on our own new Journeys. Now I cant say my friends and I never talked after that. We still chat from time to time, comment on each others facebook status's but I couldn't say we have the same bond because honestly we dont. But then nearly 6 years after I graduated my sons started playing t-ball. We started because my sister in law said i should let them play. For those of you who dont know, I have an anxiety disorder. Balls scare me. Soo many things could go long. Her son shortly after dropped out and I was there alone. I cant say I wasnt bitter at first because I had already put so much money into it and I did not wanna be that mom setting in the corner waiting anxiously on practice to be over.
Then one day... My Best friend talked to me. I wouldn't have guessed I would meet someone so like me. At the time she was a stranger with a little boy I assumed was around the same age as my youngest son. I felt so awkward around her I wanted to make a good impression. We spoke a few words here and there added each other on facebook. Then one day... I decided to invite her and another friend of mine (who wasnt my friend really at the time) out for girls day. She invited a friend of hers as well. We ended up going out to eat and to a movie. After that I feel like the three of us were stuck ! I felt like a kid again. Finally found my friends. Someone other than my husband that could relate to me. Dont get me wrong My hubby was great, but theres just things you cant talk to yoru husband about... or well that your husband doesnt really wanna hear like... Girl stuff ya know. Plus husbands arent moms, there dads or well i guess some guys are moms too but you know what I mean. Moms know exactly what its like to be a mom!
Well Thats all the time I have today if i wanna edit this and get it put up. But I hope you enjoyed this chit chat about friends.
I challange you women who don't have a best friend anymore. Step out of your comfort Zone. Ask someone out on girls day. It cant hurt! Every mom needs a break from time to time! Take a day Get your nails done, watch a movie, go walking. Have fun! Everyone needs a bestie , even if you have forgotten that you do.
Okay so This morning I was supposed to get the hubby off to work, get the kids up and to school and go have lunch with my friends. BUT! I got up got hubby off to work went n laid down and went back to sleep. Barely got the kids on the bus on time. So no breakfast for me this morning. We do this every now and then. You'd of never thought that We had only met in like April. We havn't even been friends for a year and I already feel so close to them.
So everyone knows how highschool is, you have all these friends you see 5 days a week, and a couple you see 6 or 7. Then you graduate. Never hear from them or rarely hear from them again. Both peoples fault you could always reach out. If your like me your lives just went in different directions and you no longer feel connected to them anymore. I thought I would never find friendships like the ones I lost again. My friends moved out of state, to get married or for school. Some of them were younger than me and still in school. I got married. Got pregnant shortly after with my son. No one understood my life at that point, I didnt understand theres either. We were all off on our own new Journeys. Now I cant say my friends and I never talked after that. We still chat from time to time, comment on each others facebook status's but I couldn't say we have the same bond because honestly we dont. But then nearly 6 years after I graduated my sons started playing t-ball. We started because my sister in law said i should let them play. For those of you who dont know, I have an anxiety disorder. Balls scare me. Soo many things could go long. Her son shortly after dropped out and I was there alone. I cant say I wasnt bitter at first because I had already put so much money into it and I did not wanna be that mom setting in the corner waiting anxiously on practice to be over.
Then one day... My Best friend talked to me. I wouldn't have guessed I would meet someone so like me. At the time she was a stranger with a little boy I assumed was around the same age as my youngest son. I felt so awkward around her I wanted to make a good impression. We spoke a few words here and there added each other on facebook. Then one day... I decided to invite her and another friend of mine (who wasnt my friend really at the time) out for girls day. She invited a friend of hers as well. We ended up going out to eat and to a movie. After that I feel like the three of us were stuck ! I felt like a kid again. Finally found my friends. Someone other than my husband that could relate to me. Dont get me wrong My hubby was great, but theres just things you cant talk to yoru husband about... or well that your husband doesnt really wanna hear like... Girl stuff ya know. Plus husbands arent moms, there dads or well i guess some guys are moms too but you know what I mean. Moms know exactly what its like to be a mom!
Well Thats all the time I have today if i wanna edit this and get it put up. But I hope you enjoyed this chit chat about friends.
I challange you women who don't have a best friend anymore. Step out of your comfort Zone. Ask someone out on girls day. It cant hurt! Every mom needs a break from time to time! Take a day Get your nails done, watch a movie, go walking. Have fun! Everyone needs a bestie , even if you have forgotten that you do.